
How to Plan a Bachelorette Party: The 8-Month Timeline I Actually Used
Every step, every awkward money conversation, and what I'd do again, from the first text to the group chat to the weekend itself.
Read the planEverything I learned planning one, in the order you'll actually need it.
Not a generic shopping list. This is what we actually used, photographed at the real thing.

The highest-return item of the whole weekend. In every single photo. Order these first; anything custom has the longest lead time.

Tape the groom’s face to it. Got the biggest laugh of the weekend, and cost almost nothing.

$12.94 each. Set it out on the bed before she arrives and photograph it before anyone touches it.

Get the plastic ones. A tower is a photo op, not a serving strategy, and nobody wants to wash real glassware at a rental.

Ask the group what they can do. Someone paints, someone bakes. This became the backdrop for half the weekend’s photos.

She loves spritzes, so we built a spritz bar. Costs almost nothing and it’s obviously, specifically hers.

Candy salad, custom cake pops and a sign. The small stuff built around what she actually likes is what she remembers.

The first thing she sees when she walks in. Sets the tone for the entire weekend before anyone has said a word.